I need relationship and friendship advice!!! Please help!!!?

My best friend who i will call Amy was dating this guy which we will call Max. we are all 14 and live in Australia. There is also a slut in this story called Ivy (for later). Max has done stuff with other girls too and i not sure if i should tell amy or not cause no one wants her to get hurt.

Max is a player and he was like that all the time until he started to date Amy. They had been dating for almost a year but just broke up. Because max cheated on her with the slut Ivy. Some stuff you need to know about her is that she is a typical slut, gives boy head on buses, grabs guys packages and doesnt get nervous in the nervous game.

Ivy and Max went in the car and had sex and stuff. Amy then got furious at max, and max somehow ended up dumping her. max has cheated on Amy once before and she forgave him and they kept dating.

Max has hooked up with other girls including ivy and everyone but amy knows it. All her friends are trying to protect her. Now that its over should we let her know or just forget about it and let her get over it????

Yesterday Max asked amy out again for the 5th time since they broke up. It was after school and his dad, mum and little sister were in the car next to them waiting to pick him up. Amy felt pressured and said yes!!! Everyone wants her to end it but now he out of town for basketball (with the slut ivy i have to say) Amy wants to end it too. Max also broke his phone so he is sharing his mums so amy cant just text him.

Please help me tell me wat i could do or advice her to do!!!!

How to predict pregnancy due date when you didn't have sex when you ovulated?

I found out a few hours ago I am pregnant. I took 3 tests and they all were positive. My period isn't even due until tomorrow, but something told me I am pregnant (I have 2 children) I didnt have sex anywhere around my ovulation. I was in a car accident and too sore to do anything for the past couple of weeks! I had sex 4/5 days before ovulation and that was the last time. So how exactly would the DR predict my due date? Anyone with experience want to tell me when I am due?? :)

First day of my last period: Feb. 22
I have a 31 day cycle
I was ovulated: March 10

Only reason I know all this is because I religiously track it online, lol. Ideas on due date??

You're 4 weeks 2 days - due on 11/28/2012 - based on a 28 day cycle or 3 weeks 6 days based on a 31 day cycle with a due date of 12/01/2012
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**Edit: Who are you asking?

Your Dr. is going to use his pregnancy wheel which will date your pregnancy from the first day of your last period - not when you ovulated - expect a due date of 11/28/2012 as the pregnancy wheel's don't take the average length of cycle into account

Dating a pregnancy can cause confusion, because it can be done in either of two different ways. Pregnancy can be dated from the first day of the last menstrual period or it can be dated from the day of ovulation.

In the United States, pregnancy is dated from the first day of the last menstrual period. This is a holdover from a time when much less was understood about conception. No one understood that ovulation was required for conception or when ovulation occurred. However, most women know when their last menstrual period was and it was known that the average pregnancy lasts 280 days (40 weeks) from the first day of the last menstrual period. According to this system, conception doesn’t actually occur until 2 weeks of pregnancy. Obviously, you aren’t pregnant until conception occurs. This is just an artifact of the old system.

In many other places, the new knowledge has been incorporated into a dating system that starts with conception. In that system, pregnancy starts on the day of ovulation (usually the day of conception) and lasts for 266 days (38 weeks).

**2nd edit: Uh Alexis I DID factor both a 28 and 31 day cycle into my answer hence the reason I gave 2 due dates just days apart from each other

your due date is based on the first day of your last period. based on your info your due 12/1/2012.

11/28/2012 is wrong because she didnt factor in your 31 day cycle

I have a boyfriend but I like someone else!?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. This is my first serious relationship and im 15. But anyway, he has aspergers and he goes to a private school with all boys so hes very awkward. Hes really, really sweet and opens my door, is polite,and has an amazing family. But since he has aspergers, everything is very strange. And his parents love me for accepting him but it has been difficult and hell lol but I always loved him for who he was. Lately, ive been losing feelings for my boyfriend. He ruined my birthday and got me a lame card for vday. And I have been thinking about how hes always pressured me into sex and im tired of it and ive realized we have really nothing in common. He has always been horrible at texting me and he never does anymore. But lately another guy has started to like me and I started to like him and sometime soon hes going to ask me out and yes he knows I like him and I have a boyfriend. The point is, would it be ok if I went out with guy #2 but not as a date? And I would never cheat on anybody. But theres a ball or fancy dance( like cinderella) and I went last yr and I want to break it off with my boyfriend because Iand my family think its the end. The problem is,the ball is in 3 weeks and I cant ditch him because that would be heartless and I want him to be happy at this dance. I already went on a date to see if I wanted to really break it off and I felt guilty when he would kiss me and say I love you. I know this will happen at the dance too and the guilt is unbareable. I dont know what to do. do I call him and tell him the truth? And ask if he would like to go as friends? I dont want him or his family to hate me. And I dont want to ever hurt him. Im young and I dont really want to be tied down in something serious (especially that im not happy in). And I want to date this other guy but im also afraid hes not gonna be worth it and im gonna miss my soon to be ex. What would you do if you were me?

tell ur boyfriend that ur not happy and that he cant make it better, dont get sucked back into the relationship with guilt for him, y would he and his parents hate u? because im sure they dident expect u to get married or anything.

Well if you think you're gonna miss your ex why not stay with him? Why did you start dating him if you guys don't have anything in common? Seems a bit harsh to just dump him like that.

Break up with him tomorrow, and enjoy the new opportunities as a single girl. I don't think 3 weeks is so bad to break up with someone before something big like a ball (the longer you wait, the harder it will be) . Needless to say, he will be crushed. Heck, he might even contemplate suicide. The important thing is that you can finally be in a happy relationship.

Do guys get scared when they like a girl too much?

I dated a guy for 2 months. For a while he acted like I was the most important thing in his life; didn't talk to other girls, even friends. We never had sex so I know that's not what he wanted. He broke up with me because he's shipping out soon. When he talked about it to my friend he acted upset and just said "he had to end it". We haven't talked since te break up (2 weeks). He told me I was the best thing that ever happened to him, I complete him, etc. we were together/talking 24/7. Is it possible that he just got scared?

Is he over his ex? or am i overreacting?

I deff have a great guy compared to my ex! Which I wasted 2years on&& the B's still haunts me&& I still get insecure with* him... but is he over his ex? He's told me in the beginning that he use to date girls to make her jealous! OK another thing she cheated on him with his best friend they also broke up for a day or so&& she had sex with someone&& got prego... so why was he wasting his time? Anyways me&& him have been together since November! I had juss moved to his town we met&& hit it off he says he loves me he's says don't worry about anything! He's been "taking care" of me while I went to school he also juss bought me a car! But I'm still like what the heck! See we moved jan28th 2hours away from "her" for school.... but every wknd it's like we have to go back there.. mind you he has family there but I mean she pops up everywhere! *she is sisters with His buddy's wife! Idk overreacting?

Speak English?!

I LEARNED A LESSON WITH MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND WHO IS WELL KNOWN IN OUR CITY.. IF HE SAYS IT HE MEANS IT. DON'T OVERREACT AND LET IT GET IN YOUR HEAD THAT HE IS LYING OR DOING THINGS BEHIND YOUR BACK! YOU ARE ONLY RUINING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. HE IS DOING NICE THINGS FOR YOU I.E..BUYING YOU A CAR AND SUPPORTING YOU SO THAT YOU CAN FINISH SCHOOL. GIVE THE GUY A BREAK AND LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY UNTIL HE PROVES YOU WRONG...

Don't mother's have a moral obligation to 'keep it in their pants?'?

I'm a normal guy, love my young son, love my wife however my wife and I are not seeing eye to eye.
When we first got married neither of us wanted children. She changed her tune a few years in and I agreed we should be parents. I'm glad she did because our son is the light of our life and now I can not imagine not being a father. However my perceptions changed about how my wife should act now that she had become a 'mother'.
I feel that being a mother is the most sacred, unselfish, important thing that a woman can do. My wife is an amazing mother and it makes me ecstatic to know how truly lucky my son is to have her. Having said this, however, I have found that now I feel that a mother should hold herself to a higher moral code than before. I think they should always conduct themselves with self-respect and not do anything to 'cheapen' themselves. This includes having sex, and being 'sexy' or sexual. My wife and I have not had sex in a few years since the birth of our son. Granted we don't have the time we used to, now that we care for our child, but even every Friday when my parents take our son for a sleepover at grams and gramps so me and the wife can have 'date night' we don't do it. We go out and spend time together, have some laughs and quality time, but when we come home she always tries to flirt with me and intitiate sex. She has even bought lingerie and tried seducing me. each time I have told her I didn't want to do it and excused myself to another room until she comes to her senses. She is frustrated and upset and I feel bad. I love this woman and would never cheat on her etc. It's just as difficult for me to go without sex as it is her.
But I just can not justify having my wife prance around naked, or doing all these sexual things and acting like some three-dollar whore, and then getting up and caring for our child as if nothing had ever happened. I don't want her holding, kissing, and cuddling our child knowing that she was recently degrading herself like some cheap tramp by having sex. I feel like if i did start having sex with my wife again that I should leave a $20.00 on the nighstand when I'm done. But then it's our poor son that would lose, and that's not fair to him.
Shouldn't a decent mother WANT to forego sex so she can be the best mother possible and not just some trollop out for a roll in the hay to get her rocks off?

how many accounts do u have where u ask your idiotic perverted questions about your wife being naked and stuff? u need serious medical help and parents must confiscate your computer - the rays from the screen are significantly affecting your brain

A decent mother is allowed to want and to have sex. Have you talked to her about your perception of women? Or of mothers? Just seems like a moral gap. Set up a date to surprise her, tell her you love her, rose petals on the bed, the whole shebang and maybe she won't have to act like a "trashy whore."

Are you a troll or an idiot?

Are you serious?

Maybe you need to consider some sort of counseling.

She wouldnt be a decent mother if her and her husband were not truely a husband and wife.

I think that you are using this all as an excuse that you are not sexually attracted to your wife anymore, and you are avoiding it.


No - A decent wife and mother is there for her children and is also there for her husband - and that includes sexually satisfying him, and being so in the process.

Youre talking about her as if she is a prostititute - YOURE HER HUSBAND, YOU ARE NOT DOING HER DUTY TO HER

It doesnt sound like you have a healthy functoning relationship. You have some very twisted ideas about morals and family life - I also think that you have mentally made this excuse so you do not have any other children.

Do you suffer any obsessive compulsive tendancies, depression or anxiety?

And if you do not have sex, how are you supposed to give your son brothers and sisters?

Sex is a normal part of a husband and wife relationship.

I hope that your wife divorces you and finds someone that treats her like a human being, and not an object whose sole purpose is to be your child's slave.

How do you think your son got here the stork you should take your wife the next time your alone i get jittery if my wife holds out for more than a day or so sex is part of a relationship if she dont get it at home shell get it some place else

My dear friend,you are doing injustice(of first grade) to your wife. Why can not you have fun with your wife in whatever way she wants? It will not only make her day but her life and start looking younger! Do not spoil her fun but be partner in her fun!

Is it normal to not be able to pick up on social cues?

Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl who struggles with picking up peoples social cues, especially sexual ones.
For example, if someone asks you to come in for coffee after a date, what is suggested is to come in for sex or something of that kind, but honestly if someone asked that to me I'd be expecting coffee. This happens a lot, is this normal? Thanks...

Well at 17 I would not assume that there would be a lot of coffee drinking at night... So if someone your age asks you to come in for coffee they are most likely expecting something else. If a guy is wanting to spend more time with you after a date, it is more than likely that he is trying to increase his chance of sexual contact with you by extending your time together in a more private environment.

no its a bit aspergers..... unless you have led a VERY sheltered over protected life. by your age most people are a lot more clued up.

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Survey: If you waited until marriage?

If and only if* you waited until marriage to have sex, can you please answer the following questions? Thank you. :)

1. Gender (male or female)
2. Current age or age range
3. Your age and your spouse's age when you married (or approximate age)
4. What influenced your decision to wait?
5. How long did you date before getting married? How long did you know each other?
6. Were both of you virgins before marriage or only one of you?
7. Were both of you wanting to wait until marriage or did one of you wait for the other?
8. Do you think that waiting until marriage has strengthened your marriage or relationship in any way?
9. Country you live in.
10. Anything else you care to share?

Thank you!


*No trolls or nasty comments please. There are obviously many different opinions about sex and marriage out there. This survey is for those who waited until marriage. Thanks.

I INTEND ON WAITING TILL MARRIAGE- does this count??
1. female
2.15 (decided when i was 9)
3. not married
4. religion- im a christian- also if you have sex before marriage, its like saying to your future husband/wife "you're not worth waiting for"
5-8. NA
9. australia

1.Male
2.23
3.not married yet
4.I believe in one love and sex is a part of love and love is not a part of sex
5.6yrs and still on it
6.both are still virgins
7.We both decided to wait till marriage.
8.yes by all means
9.INDIA
10.its good to wait till marriage.sex is something that should be had after understandin each other and wen we start living for each other.Sex before marriage may spoil the future in many cases.we plan how to live and wen to have kids and discused everything.so my life goes fine and happy till end.

Please help me out I don't know what to do?

I have this guy friend and he is really nice and sweet and we always joke around about stuff and the other day in maths we were joking around talking across the room by lip reading eachothers lips saying we love eachother and how we were planning on having sex after school and other stuff like that and it was really funny and some of my friends sitting next to me thought we were for real. But every one keeps saying this guy likes me and other stuff like that but he had a girlfriend but he said he was breaking up with her tonight and that he likes another girl and is going to ask her out but I am really confused because every one is saying that we should date and stuff but says he likes another girl but everyone keeps saying that they are Sure he likes me but I am also confused about my feelings towards him. I think I might be starting to like him but I'm not sure and I don't know If i want to either. So should I make sure we just stay friends or should I find our if he likes me or not. Plz help I am confused???? Oh and no mean answers please.

Play it cool, wait and see what happens, if he asks you out decide if he's worthy, in the meantime keep an eye out for less drama dudes.

you already know what to do you just haven't realized it yet. you are a female. you have female intuition. follow your heart.

Does it make me superficial to only want really hot girls?

i only want hot girls for girlfriends like no less than an 8/10. that doesn't mean i won't have sex with lesser ones, i'll use them for experience but only date 8-10s. does that make me superficial?

it depends if you only date the 8-10's based solely on their looks. If so then yes you are superficial. If you date them based on looks and personality then no.

No it makes you an A$$hole and a Jerk O** -_- i hope all girls you come in contact with turn you down until you get a mature way of thinking.

TROLL ~ NOBODY IS THIS STUPID.

I'm in a relationship with this wonderful man, I love him but I feel there is somthing missing....?

He caresses me gives me attention when he can when he isn't too busy with school. But we don't have sex, at the most once a month and right now it's been more than a month. We use to when we first started dating and it was great but there was no passion, we almost never kiss, yeah we give pecks but lip locking passionate kissing where you get lost never. We live together and he is great with my kids. I'm being supportive because he is in school. We have been living together for a lil over a year and we have arguments just like everyone. Back track 2 years ago before my relationship. i was working and this guy came in that made my heart pound like crazy, we talked exchange numbers and he asked me out and we did, it was perfect. We had drinks, he made me dinner, he played and sang for me, the connection and passion was there and we couldn't help ourselves and gave in. We kissed like crazy stoping cause everything was going to fast, having dinner, kissing again ripping our clothes off making love for hours. We would go out again a few time and the samething would happen. But I knew we couldn't be together more like wrong place and time and still i felt like he would be someone in my life. We would still see each other since he is a tattoo artist and I would take ppl in to get tattooed. 2 years later i'm in this relationship and he writes me, telling me he wants me in his life for however long i want to be in his. and god my heart started to pound again like the first time i met him. He tells me we could make this work he would buy me a house and would come home to me when he is out of town. I'm torn.... I do miss being kissed so passionate that i get lost, make love for hours with our hands body and soul. He knows i'm in a relationship and he tells me he would be the lucky guy if he would ever be with me. And he is willing to wait.... Please help I don't know what to do.

The answer is simple. The meaning of love is that closeness to some one, that connection. It is obvious who you have the connection with. Go marry the tattoo artist. The other guy is not for you. The hardest part will be letting it come out, but the hardest choice is probably the right one. Good luck.

The truth is that you don't want the guy you are with and after a while you will resent him.

You have to go with the tattoo guy or you will always be wondering.

It is not fair on your present guy to be thinking that he is in a relationship when your heart is not in it.

The guy you live with is either gay or doesnt like sex.move out its no relationship.

Boyfriend not texting ?

So my boyfriend and I have been officially dating for about a month. Last week we had sex for the first time as a couple (though we were drunk). Now he hasnt texted me or anything since. What's the deal?

Do men who date fat women have a fat fetish?

I don't know how some guys can have sex with a woman that has love handles and cellulite. Then again when I gained 10 lbs and weighed 130 I was disgusted with myself and tried avoiding mirrors.

Sometimes they are just desperate and she is available.

I'd be tempted to say anyone who isn't fat dating a fat person has a fat fetish.

Probably. Or they're blind. Or they're desperate. Or they aren't concerned about their partner's health.

Sometimes (and don't tell ANYONE this), a guy dates a fat woman because he actually likes her and she is fun to be with.

Yeah, heart girl, we all feel so bad for you gaining 10 lbs. The women who have gained 30+ lbs are going to shoot you with the laser beams that come out of their eyes. What? You didn't know they could do that? Yep...once a woman gains 30 lbs, she starts to develop that ability. By 40+ lbs, she can shoot a Chinese spy satellite out of orbit.

130 is definitely not fat

Sometimes fat girls are the best that they can get

I know this sounds impossible in today's society, but maybe he just genuinely likes her. I don't know if this is possible, but I still hold on to some hope.

low hanging fruit are easy to get.

Yea i dont get it either. I think maybe they have a fantasy of breaking into the zoo and rapping hippos.

Such ignorance...

Yes, I am sure that some men who date large women have a fat fetish of sorts [they're feeders], but others are genuinely attracted to them.

The guy who I might date soon doesn't have a fat fetish.

He clocks in at 130 pounds, while I weigh 260.

This man just truly thinks that I'm sexy; imagine that!

If the only reason the man is dating an individual is because she is fat, yes he has a fat fetish.

How to get your confidence back after a breakup?

Since I split up with my partner, I have been chatted up quite a bit but when it comes to talking back to them I have no idea how to come across or what to say. I feel like in the relationship I was in, all of my boyfriends insecurities kind of rubbed off on me. I was usually the confident one out of us two and he had so much emotional baggage I didn't realize how much he was rubbing off on me. Now when it comes to meeting other people I feel like I go in to this shell. And the idea of actually having sex with someone else is kind of exciting but I don't feel like I've got the guts! WHY?! I don't really want any one night stands, but I wouldn't mind dating again... How do I get my confidence back? I feel like I should be moving on with my life, I'm young, 21 and curl up in to a ball when a man hits on me. I should be getting out there!

Im in the same boat

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i know exactly how you feel. im in the same boat. turn 21 in 2 months except im a guy and ive been broken up with my gf of 2 years for a year and a half now and i still have no confidence. i know right, a guy has no confidence, its sad i know. so my advice is to just hang in there it gets better(i hope for both of our sakes) in your case i would say just try and talk to guys they will do most of the work. see im a romantic guy not looking for one night stands either im looking for my next gf because honestly i enjoy that a lot more than just casual sex. if you even wanna talk you can email me i would be glad to talk to you:)

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Is it wrong for me to date my niece?

The answer i know for society is yes, but my niece is one year older than me. And she is my half-niece, her dad is my mother's son, so basically her dad is my half brother, because we have different fathers. I'm really attracted to her and it's not like I plan to have sex with her or anything. I just am interested to know what you think about this, I believe she feels the same way as me, She is 17 i am sixteen and i am just at this point really confused. I need an answer.

No, incest is cool!

maybe just too young

I think its by far the nastiest sh*t ever!!! Don't be sick!!

Im sorry, but the answer is no.
Your family will frown upon this and dating family(No matter how far down the gene pool is wrong)
Religious people also see it as a sin.
And its a well known fact that if you had kids they would be inbred.

if you do not plan to have sex (or get physical), call it hanging out. bring along a third person just to be sure.

So, you aren't planning to have sex with her and you're 17? . . Who do you think believes that? . . What kind of a sick pervert dates a family member of any kind? . . Are you from Alabama? . . So if you had a child with her, your brother would be the childs uncle and grandfather . . Get away from her . .

She's not really your niece do Id say it's okay. If you were blood related it would be sick but you not propbly related so it's fine

don't do it, you cant go anywhere with it anyway, you are probably too closely related to have a child without deformities anyway. (being to closely related means the genes are to similar to create a proper child)

I'd have to stay no on this one. Dating family is looked down upon by just about everyone. I would not date her jut to be on the safe side. You can still hang out a lot ad do things that couples would normally do, (except for the making out and sex part).

even Roosevelt married his cousin :) really

Is it illegal to date a 22 yr old when you are 12 with no sex?

I know you're gonna say how a 22 that dates a 12 year old is stupid and **** but that is not what I asked and if there is no sex than it shouldn't be Illigal and it will just be kissing and I bet you will say something negative about that but nor what I asked a yes or no will do. I dont need a lecture okay? It will be a kind of a long distance releatioship and I do personly know him okay thanks

thats soooo f********g sick

Yes

Will a girl always remember you if you take her virginity?

So i've been talking to this girl for six months, and we both like(d) each other a lot. The thing is, she's crazy, and 2 months in she started dating a guy she used to have a thing with. After a month she came back to me, and things were going ok, until she started to make out with guys at parties and stuff (good thing she was honest and told me every time). We were both virgins until 2 weeks ago, we were both a little drunk but not really, and we had sex unprotected. I was talking to her the next day and i said i was happy, i was going on a trip for a week and i was excited to see her after. She agreed even smiling and everything. The next day she stopped replying to texts (i could see her tweeting blatently in my face lol) so i called her an asked her what was up, she came out and said there was another guy and that she liked him more than me. It's been tearing me apart and i'll admit i've even cried, but all i want to know is if she'll remember me. I've always heard that girls never forget the first person they had sex with especially if they had feelings for them. I've been coming to terms with me ******* up and losing her, i don't know what i did wrong but i wish i could change it, all i wanna know is whether or not later in life she'll grow up, look back and remember me.

Only if you are hung.

Considering you've just jammed this (hopefully) massive piece of meat up her **** for the first time, causing bleeding and pain, yes, I'd assume she'd remember the experience.

she will remember you as it was her first

What did my turning my ex down for sex say to him?

Me and my ex had known each other as friends since we were very small. We just got out of 3 year relationship about 2 months ago. Everything had been pretty good until I got pregnant with our son. Since then, I would catch him texting other females about them having sex, and when we would have little "breaks" he would hookup with other girls. Stupidly, I would fight to keep us together, bringing my self esteem and self-worth down in the process. We now have two children, he's 23 and I'm 22. He's currently dating a senior in high school. Last night, he asked that I go over, and I did. It was extremely awkward and when he made advances I turned him down. I don't really know what to make of his reaction..he just sat there with his head back on the couch and his hat over his eyes. Every other time that we would have been broken up, I would agree to have sex with him and we would always get back together, but then I'd still have to put up with the same bullshit. I'm finally starting to gain my selfesteem back and it felt damn good to walk out of that house with my head up and my dignity intact. Now I'm just wondering what's going through his mind. I know it's getting to him that I'm not pregnant anymore and that I'm almost back down to my pre-baby weight bc he's constantly asking if I've been getting sex and makes snide comments about my look or how i'm dressed when I take the babies to him. Any insight on my situation would be great! Thanks!!

He's a player! Seriously, you sent him the message that you're not interested and that you've moved on. Good for you to be working on your self esteem, keep it up!

I feel like my mom and sister are sexist?

I live with my mom and sister. My dad cheated on my mom a lot so they divorced when i was 10. I dont live with my dad, but i find it hard living with 2 girls. My mom experienced a lot of bad stuff w guys when she was younger and then my dad, so i feel like she has a fear with guys. She doesn't have a bf, doesnt date. My sister is a lot like my mom, like she looks up to her and stuff.

i'm a teenage guy so naturally i have sexual needs. my mom an my sister give me such a hard time about this. My mom calls me trashy because i'm having sex with multiple partners. she doesnt understand or even want to understand i dont want to date. I know i'd cheat so theres no point in leading a girl on like that.

I'm just sick of it, as soon as i walk in the house.
feel like they got something against me or they like relate me to dad

Switch to porn. Problem solved.

all women are, they want equality only when convenient

They aren't sexist, you really do sound like a bit of a jerk. I don't mean to be offensive, but having sex with tons of girls is not acceptable. I don't care how horny you are, that's not a reason to be an asshole.
Oh, by the way, pay attention in school. Your typing shows how little you pay attention.

Well my father was a drug addict and cheater. I have 5 siblings and they all grew up around him. Most are unemployed and worthless like him. I never was around him and have a job that pays extremely well. I've done my share of bad things but I didn't have him to influence my life. They probably think you are like him and since you already admit you would cheat if in a relationship then maybe you are like him

You seem to take from your dad so perhaps she is more hostile towards you.

u shud understand too that ur mother has been through rough times with men, u shud rather do something that would help change her perception bout men!

First off: Internet high five for having multiple sexual partners while still living with a parent.

I think that she had bad experience and overall doesn't understand the way that men are. Yeah, it's possible that she sees traits of your dad in you and on some level doesn't like you. That doesn't mean that she doesn't love you but it could definitely be a hard thing to deal with. Just try to explain to her the way that you are and that she can't change some things about you.

I hope you are using condoms.

I can see their point. They think you should be more settled, and maybe in time you will be. Just tell them that you understand how they feel, but you are trying your best not to hurt anyone. Tell them that you are honest about not wanting to get serious, before you hook up with any girl. Just tell them that in time, you will probably settle down, but you just have not met the right girl yet.

I know you feel you should not have to defend yourself, but women like explanations. It could help your relationship with them.

Don't tell your sister that you're cheating , it may hurt her to know that her brother is a womanizer. You have needs and urges , that's normal. You seem like your dad. If your dad was cheating on your mom , the only thing you're doing differently is you aren't with a woman. You're still hurting your sister and mother , like your father. The only reason they are saying anything is because it upsets them.

Would you want a guy like you to have sex with your sister , leave her and then move on to have sex with her friend , then the next night have sex with her again and keep playing her?