I live with my mom and sister. My dad cheated on my mom a lot so they divorced when i was 10. I dont live with my dad, but i find it hard living with 2 girls. My mom experienced a lot of bad stuff w guys when she was younger and then my dad, so i feel like she has a fear with guys. She doesn't have a bf, doesnt date. My sister is a lot like my mom, like she looks up to her and stuff.
i'm a teenage guy so naturally i have sexual needs. my mom an my sister give me such a hard time about this. My mom calls me trashy because i'm having sex with multiple partners. she doesnt understand or even want to understand i dont want to date. I know i'd cheat so theres no point in leading a girl on like that.
I'm just sick of it, as soon as i walk in the house.
feel like they got something against me or they like relate me to dad
Switch to porn. Problem solved.
all women are, they want equality only when convenient
They aren't sexist, you really do sound like a bit of a jerk. I don't mean to be offensive, but having sex with tons of girls is not acceptable. I don't care how horny you are, that's not a reason to be an asshole.
Oh, by the way, pay attention in school. Your typing shows how little you pay attention.
Well my father was a drug addict and cheater. I have 5 siblings and they all grew up around him. Most are unemployed and worthless like him. I never was around him and have a job that pays extremely well. I've done my share of bad things but I didn't have him to influence my life. They probably think you are like him and since you already admit you would cheat if in a relationship then maybe you are like him
You seem to take from your dad so perhaps she is more hostile towards you.
u shud understand too that ur mother has been through rough times with men, u shud rather do something that would help change her perception bout men!
First off: Internet high five for having multiple sexual partners while still living with a parent.
I think that she had bad experience and overall doesn't understand the way that men are. Yeah, it's possible that she sees traits of your dad in you and on some level doesn't like you. That doesn't mean that she doesn't love you but it could definitely be a hard thing to deal with. Just try to explain to her the way that you are and that she can't change some things about you.
I hope you are using condoms.
I can see their point. They think you should be more settled, and maybe in time you will be. Just tell them that you understand how they feel, but you are trying your best not to hurt anyone. Tell them that you are honest about not wanting to get serious, before you hook up with any girl. Just tell them that in time, you will probably settle down, but you just have not met the right girl yet.
I know you feel you should not have to defend yourself, but women like explanations. It could help your relationship with them.
Don't tell your sister that you're cheating , it may hurt her to know that her brother is a womanizer. You have needs and urges , that's normal. You seem like your dad. If your dad was cheating on your mom , the only thing you're doing differently is you aren't with a woman. You're still hurting your sister and mother , like your father. The only reason they are saying anything is because it upsets them.
Would you want a guy like you to have sex with your sister , leave her and then move on to have sex with her friend , then the next night have sex with her again and keep playing her?