Im 14. i think im pregntant. HELP.!?! :(?

ok. so its been about three days since me and my boyfriend had sex.
i knew him for about a year now and we have been dating for about 4 weeks.
. hes 18. and im about to be 15 in a few weeks. & its too late for me to take the "morning after pill".. my stomach has been hurting since the dayy we had sex. idk if im prego or not.! im so scared cuz i should be having my period anytime now. and im afriad to tell my mom.

i totally HATE myself for not being more carefull.

and im afriad my mom wont let me see my boyfriend anymore.

cuz i told her he was 17.!! :(
uh oh..

cuz i really NEED him. especially now...
someone plz help me..... :(

sweety take a deep breath and relax. its def to early to know if ur prego. but typically a woman ovulates approx. 2 weeks after the first day of their last period. so if ur expecting a period anyday chances are u were not ovulating at the time u had sex. but if u are serious enough with this young man and u plan on continuing a relationship with there are a few things u should consider..... first and foremost...get protected! if he is having unprotected sex with u then theres a chance he has had it with others... u are at high risk for sexually transmitted deseases .... secondly u have to be ready for all repurcutions this relationship has.... he can be arrested for having sex with a minor... stds.... and pregnancy. please please please be safe and think this through...... even though a boys attention feels good and sex with them may make u feel like they care u have to relize life is about so much more.... if ur not ready to have adult responsibilities u should not be making adult decisions....... good luck sweety.....i hope all works out for u

Do not freak out about it. If you scare yourself into thinking you're pregnant, you will show signs of being pregnant even if you aren't. Take a deep breath and wait for your period to come. Don't have a panic attack if it's late; you're under a lot of stress right now and stress causes your period to not come or be late.

If it turns out you are pregnant, my best advice is to talk to your mother and your boyfriend about it. It is very scary, but if your mom loves you she will be supportive of whatever decision you make.

Well if you had sex with out protection then there is a 99% Chance you are. And if you did use protection it could just mean you have butter fly in your stomach because you are scared. I Was scared also because me and my bf was playing around(if you know what i mean) also. Take your bf to plant parent hood and take a pregnancy test. when you go there they wont tell your parents anything. if you dont know were a plant parent hood is you can just buy a pregnancy test. But if you are pregntant. try to be brave to tell your mom, in a easy way... and i will pray for you

First calm down and relex for a couple of days. Wait and see if your period comes.
If it doesnt, tell a friend you can trust and get a preganancy test.
If this comes up positive then you should tell your mum and then decide what youre going to do.

However, if your stomache has been hurting for a few days then this could be pms, and you probably wont be pregnant.

First of all, if he's 18 in the first place he has no business having sex with you. Secondly, you should be taking a pregnancy test or asking a doctor, not yahoo answers. If you are pregnant, then you're going to have to tell your mom at some point, and after that whether she lets you see your boyfriend or not is not up to her. The state will intervene, and he'll possibly go to court for sex with a minor, and he'll have to pay child support anyway.

Get to a doctor ASAP.

Well, i have a safety net of a bunch of friends and a great older sister who would buy me a test no questions asked. If not, then buy one yourself. If you are the honest type, you should tell your parents as soon as possible. They will be able to help you the most. If not, then get a test and make sure that its not a false alarm. If you really are pregnant, then you should tell your parents and your boyfriend because its their responsibility too.
Abortion is an option, but i myself am strongly against it. Adoption is much cleaner of an option. Let me know how you end up.

The fact that your stomach has been hurting since the day you had sex doesn't really matter. You should wait like a week and half until you can take a test and then see you are or not. Don't tell your mom anything unless you know its 100% true. Just talk to your boy friend about what you think is happening. Did you use a condom? If this is just a false alarm, you should go on the pill and use a condom everytime!!
Good luck!!!

You wouldn't get stomach pains the day you have sex. It takes weeks to be symptomatic. Three days ago isn't time enough to take a test either. You need to wait and see at this point. There is nothing more you can do. Use protection. Why would you have sex with someone you have been dating for 4 weeks?? Have some standards.

Oh goodness. People are so harsh.

Well the thing is, if you ARE pregnant your boyfriend is going to jail. I am a cop and that is the law. You neeeed to tell your mom sweetie. And i doubt your pregnent because you haven't started your period yet so the sperm isn't fully developed. You need to take a birth control test and tell your mother. You should not be having sex at the age of 14, that is HIGHLY illegal.

okay first you need to calm down. okay? for one your 14. 14yr olds should NOT be having sex. im a senior in high school and im still a virgin. theres no shame in it.

2. did you use a condom?

3. take a preg test.

4. tell your mom or some one you trust.

5. if your having sex you should go get tested for STD's or AIDs. kay?

so take a chill. your stomach migt be upset because your so worryed about this. calm down and do some thing that takes your mind off of it.

hope this helped.

Stress can cause stomach pain and delayed periods, so relax, take a bath, read a good book, and just see if your period starts. Sometimes ever just taking the pregnancy test and seeing a negative result can help. I doubt that in three days you would have the signs of pregnancy most likely its all in your head.

I found out that my 13 year old daughter is not a virgin.?

She was talking on the phone and I didnt know. So I picked it up to make a phone call and heard her say that she had sex with this guy from her school. I already told her no dating until she was 16, so she knows I wont be happy.

What should I do?

Wow, well ask her about it and If she doesn't come out with it on her own then you better tell her that you know. Ask why she did it, and make sure she knows never to do it again, or at least until she's an adult.

There’s not much you can do but talk to her. She'll probably yell at you for listening on her conversation. Is it possible that she was fibbing some teens do that, when they think everyone else in their grade is having sex.

You might consider getting some photos of STD’s it will be gruesome but maybe it will set her straight. Tell her you wouldn’t be paying or raising her baby if she gets pregnant.

troll? you people are so stupid, if you dont want to get caught and look stupid why dont u make your questions & answers private, good job loser, you masturbate 3 times a day right? yeah...

13 year old having sex. Well, im sure she is a good girl. she just got cought up in trying to be an adult. talk to her.. as akword as it may seem. What she did is natural.. not really for a 13 year old. talk to her about safe sex, about respecting herself and her body. and tell her how much more nicer sex is with someone they love. find out who she was talking to.. alert the parents. Your daughter may have been joking or pretending to me more "grown up" then she actually is. SO definately talk to her.. then... take her to the doctors to get blood work done. she might be alittle upset.. or emotional about it. Dont make her feel bad about what she has done. dont do that "Im disapointed" thing, we hate that. Make her feel better. I told my mother i wasnt a virgin anymore 2 weeks after it happened. i was 16, she handled it VERY well.. but of course.. i was was 16.. almost seventeen. Im still very hurt by the guy who took my virginity. and my mom has been there for me every step of the way. and after everything is done.. isnt that what a mom is for?

Just kind of tell her you overheard a conversation because you didnt realize she was on the phone, so you picked up the phone and happened to overhear that she isnt a virgin anymore. She might actually want to talk to you about it. Im a virgin and I know if I wasnt I would want to talk to my mom about it. The guy that she has sex with might not even like her anymore or could have used her. Teens, believe me I am one, tend to keep their emotions hidden.

Tell her about STD's and what they can do. Be specific like telling her that clamidia is very common and she could have it and not even know. stuff like that. btw, 13 is very young to be having sex and if thats not handled your gonna have a daughter with lots of problems.

I wouldn't tell her that you heard her on the phone or she will think you are spying. When she is relaxed and in a good mood approach the subject about sex and contraception/protection. Don't tell her you already know what she has been doing. Also, ask her about her feelings toward sex and if she feels comfortable with it (ie. not to feel pressured by the boy). In the end, she will have sex with boys regardless of if you tell her it's ok or not. The best thing is if she is prepared emotionally and physically.

shes not old enough foe sex

tell her u kno and your very dissappointed or somethin

Find out about the boyfriend, if he is a good catch, keep your mouth shut. If not threaten to prosecute him for statuatory rape.

I'm sorry, but if your daughter likes to get probed, the boys will find a way to make this happen, you can't stop it. However you should be able to teach her what a good boyfriend, is, and why it is better to have a relationship with him, instead of some player who knows how to exploit her.
Look, at least she is not doing it with a girl.

Teenagers : Are you a virgin? Plus extra questions inside?

If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage?
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no?
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity?

If no -
How old were you when you lost it?
How old are you now?
Where you dating the person you lost it to?
Do you regret it?

Are you going to wait until marriage? -- No, probably not. I'm going to wait until the benefits (fun) outweigh the possible consequences (pregnancy, stds, parental disapproval, etc.) and I'm with someone who is as committed as I am to avoiding those consequences. Really, there isn't one teenage girl I know of that I would trust to be truthful about not wanting to get pregnant or trust to use birth control properly. And I'm not sure I trust myself, either, so I even need to wait for myself to be more committed to avoiding the consequences... ha ha.

Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? -- No.

How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? -- College, probably.

Yes.

Are you going to wait until marriage? - I doubt it. Premarital sex isn't a big deal to me.

Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? - No. LOL

How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? - When I feel ready and am in a respectful, loving relationship with a person I care for and trust, and who feels the same way toward me. Don't know when that will be. Don't know if it will actually happen that way either, but I'm thinking it will. If it happens around the time I want, I'd say maybe twenty-one or so, give or take a year or two.

Yes I am (I'm currently 17)
I don't intend to wait until marriage, only if my future husband wants to.

Been close to having the chance, but they never asked so I never obliged

I can't really choose an age, it would like to before I graduate college though.

The Following Questions I am answering for my friend (who's here, and doesn't have a yahoo account)

17, just barely though

17, this was exactly a week ago today

Yes

Nope :]

hope this helps in...whatever way LOL

I'm not a teen and haven't been for a long time, but I'm going to answer anyway, OK?

I lost my virginity when I was 19. I figured -- when I was younger than 19 -- that I'd wait until marriage, but when I met my first serious boyfriend right before I turned 19, I knew "IT" was going to happen eventually. We were so in love and really, really attracted to one another. (He wasn't a virgin and he was 2 years older than I was.) Oh, I'm 41 now, btw. I don't regret losing my virginity to that guy -- it was wonderful and special and like I said, we were in love. We dated for nearly 3 years and have recently gotten in touch again. It'll be interesting to see where this goes.

I had had opportunities to have sex prior to meeting that boyfriend, but I said no. I knew I wasn't ready. In fact, one of the guys I dated in high school told me that if I didn't give it up, he'd find someone who did. I told him to go ahead. Oddly enough, he didn't break up with me. ;)

If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage? I am not sure yet. I am going to at least wait until I am totally 100% in love with a person and I want to make that commitment to them.
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? Nope
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? It dosen't matter, whenever I feel ready and I am responsible enough to accept both the emotional and physical consequences.

Are you going to wait until marriage? Yes
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? Yes
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? Whenever the time is right :)

I'm 21 years old by the way, have been through four boyfriends and am still a virgin. It's purely for religious reasons, because the desire is there.
It's not easy to wait, but God means a lot to me and doing my best to follow His word is something I place a lot of importance on :)

Nope.

How old were you when you lost it?
I was REALLY young when I got raped... voluntary at around 13. I was a messed up kid.

How old are you now?
17.

Where you dating the person you lost it to?
At 13ish? Yes.

Do you regret it?
Um, actually, no. I never thought of sex to be a big deal. Thumbs down me all you want, but whatever.I think it's mostly because I got to the point where my sick "step-father" really violated me alot. I just wanted to feel like I WANTED it for once. Like I was in charge. i didn't care who it was with.

no im not a virgin.
i was 17 when i lost it
im 18 now
yes i was dating him and still am.
no. we're expecting our first kid and he is deployed right now so he sends me money every month to buy everything ill need for baby and he randomly buys stuff for her and has it sent to me. we're getting married a few months after he gets home.

im 18 and a virgin

If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage? no. im waiting till i find the right person
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? ive had a bf before so yea i had the chance
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? eh, only 18 now and a senior high school so not till college

Nope-
How old were you when you lost it? 18

How old are you now? 20

Where you dating the person you lost it to? Yes and I still am and I had been with him since I was 16.

Do you regret it? I don't regret doing it, but it wasn't what I thought it'd be.

...

Yes.

I am going to try to wait till marriage. If not, he will have to be a long term boyfriend because I don't want to give it to someone I will regret in the future--and this is coming from an impulsive person.

I haven't.

...22?...23?...I get this weird feeling I am going to get married young for some reason...

I am 22 going on 23...im still a virgin...I'm waiting until I get married. I only want to have sex with ONE person in this lifetime. I dont place myself in situations that could lead to getting physical...I have ALOT of self control...
Your body is a temple & should not be abused by multiple people.

Yes.
Are you going to wait until marriage? Not necessarily, I'm just waiting for when I'm ready.
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? No, I've never had the chance.
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? Um, somewhere around 17 - 24. :)

No i`m not i lost it at the age of 18 i`m still 18 now i wasn't dating him it was kinda just of a hookup that happened more than once with him and YES i do regret it sooo much i wish i would have waited for a better guy to come along

Yes
If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage? yes I am, I believe that way its much safer, and I get to share it with the one I truley love
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? nope
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? I dunno 25, 26?

Yes I am a virgin.

Yes, I am going to wait till marriage.

I have never had the chance to have sex, but if I had I would say no.

How ever old I am when I get married, is how old I would like to lose my virginity.

No.

How old were you when you lost it? 15
How old are you now? 16
Where you dating the person you lost it to? No
Do you regret it? No