Thursday, July 12, 2012

Is it normal to not be able to pick up on social cues?

Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl who struggles with picking up peoples social cues, especially sexual ones.
For example, if someone asks you to come in for coffee after a date, what is suggested is to come in for sex or something of that kind, but honestly if someone asked that to me I'd be expecting coffee. This happens a lot, is this normal? Thanks...

Well at 17 I would not assume that there would be a lot of coffee drinking at night... So if someone your age asks you to come in for coffee they are most likely expecting something else. If a guy is wanting to spend more time with you after a date, it is more than likely that he is trying to increase his chance of sexual contact with you by extending your time together in a more private environment.

no its a bit aspergers..... unless you have led a VERY sheltered over protected life. by your age most people are a lot more clued up.