Sunday, June 3, 2012

Should i have sex with him?

so, i met this guy like 2 yrs ago and weve been dating. soo, he wants to have sex, so should i? im 12 and hes15 but i looove him. so, should i? he says he wants to have sex.

no, because if you get caught he'll be snt to prison and then there goes your relationship. If you really love him you'll tell him know or you'll expect never to see him again because he'll be behind bars.

This is something that is really hard to answer but I'm going to give you an honest opinion. You are both very young and you could get him in alot of trouble because you technically aren't even a teenager yet. Also, and I know this will sound very cruel but, because you are so young what this love may be to you may not even be true love. I understand that you guys have been together for a long time but sex is something that should wait until you are a little older. He is 15 and that is usually about the age when people want to start having sex and usually do. I think that you should try and wait until then and if he can't respect you and do that then it is not love. However, if you do choose to go through with what he wants you to do make sure that you are careful about it because you are 100% to young to be having a baby. I hope that I have helped and good luck,

No there is a whole pile reasons you shouldn't a lot of guys put pressure on girls to have sex, really you should wait until you feel it is right not when he wants to have it. Then there is the legal issues as you are underage he would actually be technically a rapist as you are not old enough to give consent, then there is the problem if you get pregnant. But, the worst thing is that he may boast about it and ruin your reputation and these sort of things tend to go around.

No! I'm 12 too and I have enough sense to say no when a guy asks for that. You are a girl and you're too young. There are so many risks just don't do it. You could get pregnant (condoms aren't 100% effective) and you can get STDs. And how much longer do you seriously think a dumb hormonal teenager is going to stay with little pre-teen you after he takes your virginity? Trust me, if you don't want to get hurt, don't do it. And you do not love him. You think you do. Trust me. And he wants to have sex because he's horny and you're available, after that, you will mean nothing. I'm not trying to be mean, but listen, DON'T DO IT. You can ruin your young life with a baby at 12, get a life threatening disease, (chances are this isn't his first time), and you're too young. Don't.