Wednesday, July 25, 2012

I need advice on my hubby and my marriage?

i really need opinions on this
and the purpose of my marriage.
I have seen a video and a couple of shots in which my husband was on a diner date with some blonde friend of his
and strangely he wasn't even sitting on his seat,the girl was sitting in front of his seat instead he was standing behind her,kissing her head,wrapping his arms around her chest,stomach and neck and both were laughing and joking.and looked so happy and it was obvious that they must have had sex that night as well.

Best friends with ex girlfriend but suddenly he publicly thrashed her for how many men he knows she slept with,whom she is sleeping with while he is talking and that shes are a **** indirectly and during that he mentioned me what he put me through during the overdose incident, in laws crying when they hear that

I cannot understand why he got a tattoo of my name when the same year he cheated,posing with three skimpy dressed blondes and later one of them was sitting on his lap,while he was partially unclothed,showing his wedding ring to the camera.THIS HAPPENED AFTER MARRIAGE.


But my husband has painted such a good picture of himself,that he changed and is such a family man that nobody really believes that he can cheat on me now.except a few people.
writing time needed to be with family,going on a family vacation,watching TV with me,writing happy birthday to me on twitter when we wee together the whole day,and other things about me and daughter on twitter) kisses me in the crowds after hes done performing

he wrote happy birthday to me on twitter as just the day before your my birthday while he was talking on twitter,he didn't mention that its my birthday tomorrow..just told that we are going for our family vacation.and why will a husband wish his wife happy birthday on twitter when hes going on a vacation with her and kid that day and is with her the whole day???
is this just another stunt for proving what a family man,good hubby he is.i dont think anybody who really loves their spouse, writes their spouse happy birthday on twitter when they are at home with them!

he wanted a child as quickly as possible before he got married.and had already thought of baby names including selecting a name for a girl child. He loves his daughter a lot even though he stays out of home a lot due to his job.
WHY?? and why he stays?he loves me?

No, he doesn't... I'm sorry to say but the men like your so called hubby are concerned with the public image of themselves and nothing more.
If you want the trauma of your life to continue and increase exponentially then be with him or else if u want a life where you and your sentiments exists, just leave him.
On the other hands, to check if he loves u or no, ignore him for sone long time. Leave the house and shift to your parents home. If he'll realize his mistake will definitely come back to you.
Rest, good luck n all the best.