why do women think their issues and grievances regarding dating,sex and relationships are more valid.
that their choices are somehow morally superior.
why do women remind men of their faults, their hypocrisies and prejudice, but never have the guts to admit theirs. why are women incapable of introspection on these issues?
Because they are women. It is wrong to expose their biases and faults because they will not go out with you if you do.
I think the proper question is why do YOU take more to heart what women say about dating than what you believe?
To me, this just sounds like you have problems in that arena and want to blame women for holding and expressing their opinions on the matter (which then makes you see that your strategies and ideas aren't in line with theirs, so what YOU want to do is have them all change THEIR minds rather than YOU change YOUR strategies). Control freak.