Sunday, May 6, 2012

How do you know if a guy you're dating is only interested in sex?

What are some signs, signals, and words that a guy might use when he is only looking for sex when dating a woman?

easy- don't give him sex, see how he reacts.

There is one absolute way to tell if a guy is having sex with the woman he loves, or just having sex for sport.
When you're doing it, and he finishes in you (or on you or whatever) - what happens in that next minute? Men that just want sex will disconnect immediately after, keep their distance, go and clean up, turn on some music, anything to distract from intimacy with you. The ones who are sleeping with the woman they love will either stay connected and close until the mess becomes awkward, or they will get back close immediately after cleaning up. They still want intimacy straight after ejaculation when they are at their least sexual.
It's a 100% accurate indicator!
Of course the catch here is that you have to do it with him. If you want to know before taking your pants off...I have no idea. Guys will say anything to get in there. It's only after they've released that sexual pressure and dropped away that mask that you will see the true monster/sweetheart.

i have a ton of experience in this area from a recent boyfriend that I had. Basically if he is always staring at other girls, looks inappropriatly at you, talks about innapropriate things a lot, and if he has had sex before and how many times. My last bf had sex with 4 different girls and had all those signs, he ended up cheating on me later on.