I've never had a boyfriend because I was born in a boy's body so therefore nobody ever wanted to date me :( I'm getting a sex change and idk how I'm going to meet a man who respects me while I have a penis. I need a boyfriend so much, but I need him to respect that I don't want to have sex until I get a vagina and all of the boyfriends I've ever had have been the exact same!! :( They've all wanted to do things with my boy part and they've wanted me to show them my body even then i'm not comfortable with that and I tell them all the time and it makes me so sad that they don't stop asking. My current "boyfriend" keeps trying to get me into showing him my body and I keep telling him no and he keeps saying he wants to help me feel better about myself but i dont think i should believe him... I just want someone special in my life who loves me and respects me and wants to take it slow so bad it makes me cry right now I feel like my heart is breaking </3 :'( What should I tell my current "boyfriend"
It will be very hard into you have completed the transition.
i honestly thought that you were a female lol, i had no idea you were a male, so you are a male that dresses like a female? or are you a female that was born with body parts of a male? im just curious not trying to piss you off
You must be a lady gaga fan. Did he inspire you? He is a man who pretends to be female. You're going to have to get on estrogen treatment. Face it you're a dude even if you mutalate your penis, you'll always have xy chromozones. You can never have xx
If you are doing gender reassignment surgery, I really hope you are getting pre-counselling.
I hate to say this, but do you really think after surgery and have some fake vagina that boys will be all over you? Ummm...nope. Many straight guys are completely turned off by a tranny. I'm just telling you how it is. And most of those who do the surgery still look like a man trying to look like a woman. You'd probably be better off just being an effeminate gay male and finding a boyfriend that way.
There are gay people who will like you.