whitley and i have been dating for a few wekks and i have never felt this way with anyone else the way i feel about him and he wants to have sex and i want to too and we have alredy made out quite a few times and i think we are there and ready but i dont want 2 get pregnant so what do i do ????
go for it. i did.
Well, if you really have to ask, perhaps you aren't ready? No one can make your decisions for you. I know girls that lost your virginity younger than you, and they weren't even going out with the guy. I think that if you're ready, that's your decision. Personally, I waited until I was 18, and I am so glad that I did. For me at least, I felt that I was older and could truly appreciate the moment. If you do decide to have sex, make sure you use protection. Don't let him tell you he is going to "pull out." Well, before you make this decision, you need to come to terms with yourself. Don't let your boyfriend pressure you. You need to make sure you're ready when you're alone. If you decide you are, THEN go talk to your boyfriend about it. Well, good luck with everything.
Dont do it a feeling is not good enough to make any decision. Feelings are not rational and are not based on information they are based upon generally what you have learnt through time. In this instance spending time with him has made you feel a particular way. Please look at the situation rationally and not emotionally, otherwise you may make a mistake. Anyway its best not to have sex with a dude so early 2 reasons. You never know who a person is after 2 weeks not even the best psychologist can do it. 2 once a man has had sex he has reached the height of pleasure unless he loves you which takes a long time to form with guys, the pleasure of the sex is greater than the relationship, which is why most of the time the man just moves on to the next sex.
Wait. This is probably not the guy that you will marry someday and is he really mature enough to leave all his dreams behind so he can support you and a child that he probably doesn't even want at this point in his life. Sex should be more than a one night stand or even a temporary thing. Too much is riding on the choices that you make. He is going to be a kid for a few more years and so are you. Are you even considering what it would mean to become somebodies "Mom" at 13 or 14. Even if you believe that your love is forever, nothing puts an end to the romance faster than a baby having a baby that neither of them thought about before they did the deed.
Honey to be ready for sex you need to be emotinally stable. in other words you need to be able to know you will accept the consequences that come along. Things like pregnancies, STD's, or a broken heart. If your asking this uestion automatically your unsure of what to do, therefore your not ready. Because when you are, you are mature enough to think about everything yourself and with your partner. Give yourself the opportunity to date and have boyfriends without the need for sex until your emotionally ready. And the time will come someday trust me!
You should wait and a few weeks is nothing trust me. All guys want to and just to let you know you aren't in love it just feels that way. But when you are you will know. I am not saying wait til you are married but give it real thought. Me I want to wait til I'm 18 to 21, but the youngest I'll ever consider is 16, but if I were you I would wait. And making out is nothing compared to making out. THERE IS A COMPLETE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN KISSING (PUTTING YOUR TONGUES TOGETHER INSIDE YOUR MOUTH) AND SEX (HIM PUTTING HIS PENIS INTO YOUR VAGINA). And if its only been a few weeks he is probably going to leave you.