Ive just turned 16 and im dating a guy who is 19...i no we are told to always say no if we are not ready for sex but as im 16 would he then end it...im not saying i wont feel ready soon but im not at the mo also hes not a virgin, making it even harder. should i stick to how i feel or give in...answers soon please.x
If he's pressuring you into something you don't want to do, its a bad sign. If he really cared about you, he would respect your decisions. Do what you believe is right for yourself.
Stick to how you feel. If he actually cares about you, he will understand and respect you enough not to pressure you. If he's pressuring you, dump him.
If he ends it because you don't want to, he was just using you for the sex. You don't want to date a guy like that.
If you don`t want to. then don`t (I`m not saying you should either) because I`m a christian and all.
but the most important thing is only do it if you love someone. if he dosn`t love you to wait. then forget. he`s a jerk.
stick to how you feel.
never give in if you arent ready.
never just give in! especially if it's your first time. you want to WANT to give that up to someone special, not because you feel like you have to.. or like you have to so he won't leave you.
Don't give in. Let him know you're not ready and not to pressure you to have sex. If he cares about you, he'll understand.
if he's pressuring you for sex, he only wants a hole(pleasure), not you
if he's a good guy, he wont end it and he'll wait till your ready
say no.
if your not ready your not ready.
We don't know him. How could we know if he'll end it if you say "no"? If he ends it, then you don't need to be with him (he's a bit old for you anyway).
You don't have any business having sex before age 18 anyway, when you are a legal adult and your parents don't have to pay for the consequences of your actions.
If you can't pay, don't play (medical bills for pregnancy or STD treatment aren't cheap)
STICK WITH WHAT YOU FEEL
or else ur gonna regret it
If he ends it just because of that, then he's a douche that doesn't need to be dating sixteen year-olds.
Stick to how you feel. If he is the type of guy that would dump you over this then he's not worth having sex with anyway.
Always stick to how you feel. If you're not ready, you're not ready! You should never be pressured into having sex if you don't want to or if you're not ready. If you're not ready, you will most likely regret it later or not enjoy it as much as you could when you are ready. Also, if the guy leaves you for not having sex with him then he is not worth it at all. You want a guy that'll be with you regardless of having sex with him.
Say no. There's no shame in waiting until you're completely ready!
If he ends it then hes not the guy for you!
You're too young to be going with a 19 year old. Stick to your feelings, because once he gets what he wants, the relationship's going to be over. Why else would a 19 year old be interested in a 16 year old? Good Luck!
mm you should def stick with your standards and wait till your ready. i dont know whether or not hell end it, he might if u just turned 16 and hes 19, he probably only wants one thing. but i dont know if hes different.
my advice is dont, but do what you feel is right.
dont give in.
stick to your rights.
hes just in it for the sex and you are in it for the relationship
DO NOT GIVE IN.
its not a good idea.
If he wants to end it, let him end it.
wait until marriage. it will be much better for you in the long run.
never give in for nobody unless you're absolutely sure you're ready and if he leaves because of that it means all he wanted was sex not you so dont give in
Stick to how you feel.
if he truely loves you he would understand.
stick to your gutt. if he really loves you he will understand! you dont want a guy thats just in it for the sex!
stick with what you feel for sure ....good luck
you should keep your virginity for the man you marry!!!
You have no idea how much more meaningful it will be in marriage!!