I met this beautiful girl at a party a couple of months back. We went out that evening and i stayed back at hers that night. A few days later we went on a date and had sex that evening and again i stayed round. We saw each other again 3 more times that week again having sex and staying round at her place. I bought her a valentines present, nothing major.. just a nice gesture. She told her friend that she was smitten. She really really liked me and i really like her, she was up for a relationship and so was I, we got on really well, things were great!
Anyway we are both at uni so she went home for a week at which point she was still texting me a lot and she said she missed me and wanted to come back to see me. Anyway on the day she got back she seemed very distant, stopped texting me practically. I didn't see her. I thought nothing of it until the next day when she text me saying her ex of 6 years had got in touch saying he eventually wants to be friends. The next few days she blew me off twice saying that she needed space and time. I was hurt quite frankly. They have been broken up for almost a year!
So i gave her sometime about a week when i text her saying I'm thinking of you i still care for you and want to be with you.. blah blah and that i understand her situation. Again she was very distant. Her texting was boring she seemed disinterested. I eventually met up for a chat with her where she said that she wouldn't mind if i slept with other girls, i tick all the right boxes for a relationship but she needs to get over her ex fully before she can commit to something new. Anyway that night i ran into her at a club, didn't know she was there.. i went up to try and speak to her and she completely blanked me? Understandably i was massively hurt by this because i still do care for her. So another week went by and then i noticed on Facebook that she was in a relationship with someone new? Not me or her Ex. I flipped out.. called her something i shouldn't have. I found out from a mutual friend that it was all a 'big joke' to make her ex think she's over him and apparently it was her best friend (new guy).
I apologised after finding that out, heat of the moment.. but she told me to go F*** myself. And that she doesn't want to talk to me. Anyway a couple of weeks passed and she had my shirt.. i wanted it back off her and our mutual friend was at hers (we all live in the same building at uni) so she came over dropped it off and then she told me that her grandma had died (not the mutual friend), so i felt like absolute S*** i text her saying I'm sorry to hear for about your loss, i feel dreadful.. She replied saying thank you and that she wasn't angry at me at all and that she didn't want to make me feel bad. She also told our mutual friend that she still cared for me a lot.
So i told her i really want to see her and she suggested we go out for drinks when she gets back She's gone home for a couple weeks. I don't know what too do? I have been hurt by this girl but I'm desperate for things to work out, obviously i don't want to be hurt again. She doesn't text me anymore like she used to all the time! Seems totally disinterested. Really don't want to lose her after such a promising start.. Its all just a massive shame. Should i move on?
Sorry about they essay, it's easier said than done to move on but we were intimate and both got emotionally attached, her more than me until her ex got in touch.