Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Teenagers : Are you a virgin? Plus extra questions inside?

If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage?
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no?
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity?

If no -
How old were you when you lost it?
How old are you now?
Where you dating the person you lost it to?
Do you regret it?

Are you going to wait until marriage? -- No, probably not. I'm going to wait until the benefits (fun) outweigh the possible consequences (pregnancy, stds, parental disapproval, etc.) and I'm with someone who is as committed as I am to avoiding those consequences. Really, there isn't one teenage girl I know of that I would trust to be truthful about not wanting to get pregnant or trust to use birth control properly. And I'm not sure I trust myself, either, so I even need to wait for myself to be more committed to avoiding the consequences... ha ha.

Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? -- No.

How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? -- College, probably.

Yes.

Are you going to wait until marriage? - I doubt it. Premarital sex isn't a big deal to me.

Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? - No. LOL

How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? - When I feel ready and am in a respectful, loving relationship with a person I care for and trust, and who feels the same way toward me. Don't know when that will be. Don't know if it will actually happen that way either, but I'm thinking it will. If it happens around the time I want, I'd say maybe twenty-one or so, give or take a year or two.

Yes I am (I'm currently 17)
I don't intend to wait until marriage, only if my future husband wants to.

Been close to having the chance, but they never asked so I never obliged

I can't really choose an age, it would like to before I graduate college though.

The Following Questions I am answering for my friend (who's here, and doesn't have a yahoo account)

17, just barely though

17, this was exactly a week ago today

Yes

Nope :]

hope this helps in...whatever way LOL

I'm not a teen and haven't been for a long time, but I'm going to answer anyway, OK?

I lost my virginity when I was 19. I figured -- when I was younger than 19 -- that I'd wait until marriage, but when I met my first serious boyfriend right before I turned 19, I knew "IT" was going to happen eventually. We were so in love and really, really attracted to one another. (He wasn't a virgin and he was 2 years older than I was.) Oh, I'm 41 now, btw. I don't regret losing my virginity to that guy -- it was wonderful and special and like I said, we were in love. We dated for nearly 3 years and have recently gotten in touch again. It'll be interesting to see where this goes.

I had had opportunities to have sex prior to meeting that boyfriend, but I said no. I knew I wasn't ready. In fact, one of the guys I dated in high school told me that if I didn't give it up, he'd find someone who did. I told him to go ahead. Oddly enough, he didn't break up with me. ;)

If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage? I am not sure yet. I am going to at least wait until I am totally 100% in love with a person and I want to make that commitment to them.
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? Nope
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? It dosen't matter, whenever I feel ready and I am responsible enough to accept both the emotional and physical consequences.

Are you going to wait until marriage? Yes
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? Yes
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? Whenever the time is right :)

I'm 21 years old by the way, have been through four boyfriends and am still a virgin. It's purely for religious reasons, because the desire is there.
It's not easy to wait, but God means a lot to me and doing my best to follow His word is something I place a lot of importance on :)

Nope.

How old were you when you lost it?
I was REALLY young when I got raped... voluntary at around 13. I was a messed up kid.

How old are you now?
17.

Where you dating the person you lost it to?
At 13ish? Yes.

Do you regret it?
Um, actually, no. I never thought of sex to be a big deal. Thumbs down me all you want, but whatever.I think it's mostly because I got to the point where my sick "step-father" really violated me alot. I just wanted to feel like I WANTED it for once. Like I was in charge. i didn't care who it was with.

no im not a virgin.
i was 17 when i lost it
im 18 now
yes i was dating him and still am.
no. we're expecting our first kid and he is deployed right now so he sends me money every month to buy everything ill need for baby and he randomly buys stuff for her and has it sent to me. we're getting married a few months after he gets home.

im 18 and a virgin

If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage? no. im waiting till i find the right person
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? ive had a bf before so yea i had the chance
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? eh, only 18 now and a senior high school so not till college

Nope-
How old were you when you lost it? 18

How old are you now? 20

Where you dating the person you lost it to? Yes and I still am and I had been with him since I was 16.

Do you regret it? I don't regret doing it, but it wasn't what I thought it'd be.

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Yes.

I am going to try to wait till marriage. If not, he will have to be a long term boyfriend because I don't want to give it to someone I will regret in the future--and this is coming from an impulsive person.

I haven't.

...22?...23?...I get this weird feeling I am going to get married young for some reason...

I am 22 going on 23...im still a virgin...I'm waiting until I get married. I only want to have sex with ONE person in this lifetime. I dont place myself in situations that could lead to getting physical...I have ALOT of self control...
Your body is a temple & should not be abused by multiple people.

Yes.
Are you going to wait until marriage? Not necessarily, I'm just waiting for when I'm ready.
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? No, I've never had the chance.
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? Um, somewhere around 17 - 24. :)

No i`m not i lost it at the age of 18 i`m still 18 now i wasn't dating him it was kinda just of a hookup that happened more than once with him and YES i do regret it sooo much i wish i would have waited for a better guy to come along

Yes
If yes -
Are you going to wait until marriage? yes I am, I believe that way its much safer, and I get to share it with the one I truley love
Did you have the chance to have sex, but said no? nope
How old do you want to be when you loose your virginity? I dunno 25, 26?

Yes I am a virgin.

Yes, I am going to wait till marriage.

I have never had the chance to have sex, but if I had I would say no.

How ever old I am when I get married, is how old I would like to lose my virginity.

No.

How old were you when you lost it? 15
How old are you now? 16
Where you dating the person you lost it to? No
Do you regret it? No