ok me and my friend agreed to have sex this saturday my dad is gone so yea... but we dated fa like 4 days tho and now were kinda friends. he seys that he'll feel me up and that he would look at my *** if i wanted him to and stuff like that. dose that mean he wats to? im so confused please help me. i mean he sed that the only way he'll come up is if i would have sex with him so...
BTW: im 12 and he's 16
F*CK NO!!
Are you stupid or something? Do you realise that he'll probably rape you if you stop half way through? Dude. what are you thinking?!
Don't do it!
I would say HELL NO. okay, let me tell you something. you say you were only dating for four days? and your 12 and he's 16? well all guys think with there *****, it's a fact. Not all guys will do that to a girl though, if they honestly wanted to the relationship to last. If he said that the only reason he want to come over is to have sex with you, then tell him no. Then he'll know that your not an "easy" girl, and he'll either move on or if he truelly likes you he will stick around. But dont let guys use you. You will regret in later, and he will think he scored.
In the end its always your decition. But I would say no.
Absolutely Not.
Age, Anxiety, and Confusion are a dynamic of major personal warning signs. These are cease and desist messages. Personal warning systems function very well. You are telling yourself to consider some other more constructive activities and behavior.
Love yourself first and foremost. Focus on educational activities and events. Academic, athletic, and extra curricular achievement. Enjoy the benefits of education and learning. Successful accomplishment is school will have an enormous impact on personal confidence. Self reliance will increase with intellectual maturity.
Friends and peers should mutually encourage intellectual growth opportunities. Friends and peers facilitate avoiding risky circumstances or situations.
Communicate in confidence with an adult(counselor, mentor, teacher) if you are too embarrassed to initiate a discussion with parents. Immature and premature intimacy is confusing because it is irresponsible behavior. You will have your entire adult life to learn and understand the responsible information regarding sexual activity.
Social skills evolve with experience. It is obvious that there is so much ahead for you in live. Take this intimacy thing very slow. In fact STOP. The risks of STD's and Pregnancy are very real and unnecessary.
This is something for responsible adults. Anyone suggesting that you engage in anything intimate should be identified and reported to a responsible adult. This person is in need of serious counseling also. Suggesting that you have sex is not a friendly or romantic move.
Avoid any physical contact.
Schedule a public group activity or event for your weekend.
whoa you are way too young. im all for the expression of love with sex but you are 12 and you dont love him. think about the consequence:
you can be emotionally hurt,
if its your first time you WILL be physically hurt (it hurts the first one or two times so theres another reason you really need to love someone to go there),
and you may get pregnant. there is always a chance because the only prevention for pregnancy is not having sex. please think very hard about this. if he doesnt want to be your friend because you wont screw him, then is he a real friend?
I don't mean to be rude, but are you nuts???!!! If this 16 year old boy has any sexual contact with you, it's illegal! You are too young to be having sex - especially if you have to ask whether it's OK or not. You should have sex with someone you love, and who loves you in return - and when you are of legal age! While it's perfectly normal to WANT to have sex, there are many other things to consider and just wanting to have sex is not a good reason to do it! You should be hanging out with people closer to your own age, who want to do the same things at this point in their life (like go to the movies) rather than thinking about having sex. Don't do it!!!! I can guarantee you will regret it. Please reconsider.
If you don't want to don't! It's your life and it's not his. You are the one living in your body and your soul. You are 12 and you have a really long time to wait. I know all the health teachers at school tell you that "Abstinence" is the best method. Which it is the truth. If you don't love him, or at least have strong feelings for him. Please, don't do it. If it is your first time, you don't want to waist on it on a 16 year old kid. You should at least wait in till you are in high school and you are in a steady relationship. I guarantee you, that if you sleep with this guy, he will get what he wants and stop talking to you and move onto someone else. I am sorry, but it is the truth. And no one deserves to get hurt like that. If you do sleep with him: Be safe.