Friday, April 13, 2012

Question for gay people who tried to be straight by dating the opposite sex?

just as an fyi, I am not gay but am completely supportive of gay rights.

did you have any feelings, at all, for the person (of the opposite sex) you were dating?

seriously, honest opinions please.
thank you!

Yes, it wasn't just platonic either, it was quite romantic.. actually. The only thing that got in the way of keeping the relationship going was sexual tension.

Feelings, yes, Not enough to prevent me from letting things dissolve as I came to accept myself. In most cases, those feelings prompt me to check in about this time of year and make sure they're alright. They don't know I'm gay, but I still feel a certain obligation to make sure that life is going as well as I can for form.

So far, they're doing very well. Two are married with children, (fortunately none of mine,) on is getting deep into AA, and if that's what works for her, I'm more than happy for her.

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I tried to date a boy but I only had feelings for him as a friend. When I told him he was upset but very accenting and told me I was either to young or was a lesbian.
And I've been dating girls ever since.

every girl i hav ever dated just seemed like a close friend to me nothing closer i did not feel any sexual attraction to them but i did care about them just not for them