Well my mom has always said to not have sex unless i was ready for a baby! well i wanted a child! i know im crazy i dont need you to say it! I already feel bad! But whatever i did it with a guy i was only friends with. Not even best friends. And now im pregnent. I am happy and cant wait to be a mom. i have a job and everything but how do i tell my mom! Plus my parents are divorsed so how do i tell my VERY judge mental dad?
Any clue as to why your father might be so judgmental?
The only thing you can really do is grow a pair and tell them, your dad will most likely spite you for it and your mother may not be very happy either.
It's rather silly to practice unsafe sex with someone you're just friends with, and it will be incredibly hard to look after a baby at just 15, on what possible is minimum wage, you need to get food and milk and baby stuff.
As frank as this may seem, I don't think 15 is a good age to throw your life away on a baby and it might be best to abort it.
Ever seen the show with that girl who is pregnant, I forgot the name of it. Well, you know you shouldn't have had sex with someone if you weren't either married or in love. Hasn't anyone ever told you that? Anyways, tell your parents & I know that they will be disappointed in you but I'm pretty sure everything happens for a reason. These next 9 months will be very difficult but I think in the end you can give your child up for adoption or do the right thing & raise the child. Good Luck & God Bless you!
Have you considered what it is going to be like when you have the baby? Are you going to pay for daycare... because you will have to work all the time to support it. You won't be able to finish high school... unless your mom takes over raising your kid. The longer you wait the worse it will be. It's best to tell her that it was a mistake... and that you really need her help. Clearly the baby's dad isn't going to be in the picture, so your going to need the support. You can't even drive... you really didn't think this through. It isn't really fair to the baby... you should consider giving it up for adoption... you only think your ready to have a baby but your not. You have a lot of decisions to make... start by telling your mom, she can help.
Good luck!!!
congratulations child birth is a wonderful thing!
i think the best thing is to be totally honest! sit your mum and dad down, either together or seperately and tell them straight. they will of corse be angry, but they will respect the fact that you told them the truth and acted like a grownup!
i personally think it would be a good idea to tell your mum and dad together....so then if one gets angry then the other can talk to them about it and they can discuss it together which takes the heat off you...
if you dont want to tell them you could tell your fave teacher in school and ask them to tell your parents with you present...like call a school meeting...i understand you are scared. but they have to know so they can help prepair for the baby's arrival..
no matter what happens you will always be your mum and dads child. and im sure they will do everything they can do to support you!
good luck...i hope it goes well.
Well good for you, im not going to judge.
I think the first step you need to take on is making sure you have a home for you and your baby.
Tell your mom be like i need to tell you something thats really inportant to me, thean ask her if she will help you talk to your dad or figure out a way to tell him.
you will will be glad you told them, holding it in is way to much.