Okay, so I dated this guy and the farthest that we went was to kiss while we were dating. We then broke up and became friends with benefits, but for a while, that only got as far as making out and feeling up on eachother. Then he got with one of my friends, and still he acted sexual around me, such as feeling and when we talked on the phone we ended up doing it on the phone. Then we got together and we had sex at his house. Now, he's with this other girl, and today we had sex again. We're not together and he's with this other girl. Am I a whore?
You really need to think about what you are doing & work on your self-esteem. If you continue to have relations with him while he is back with his girlfriend, you need a serious reality check as well as a boost in self-worth. At the bottom of the sex act itself (many times more for women, is attachment) is what you are looking for or seeking. Is it attention, love or both? You might also take a good look at your life to see what is missing. Friends, family, education, spirituality & where you are going with your life in the next few years are all important matters to think about. Hopefully you can focus on the larger picture for your life (education, success, travel, fulfillment of your dreams) rather than getting hooked up with guys who use you. You are not a whore because whores are paid for their services. You are not the other slang term commonly used because you do have a relationship with him, however strained.
No, your just young. If you just want sex then there is nothing wrong with this arrangement. I hope your using protection. However, if you have feelings for this guy, you are in for some hurting. Why would he tie himself to you when he can still get the action and have someone else too? It just depends on where your heart lies. By asking if your a whore I would say you are not doing this without emotional attachment. I suggest you tell this friend that this is no longer working for you. Tell him you have feeling for him, but if you are going to be sexual with him your relationship needs to be exclusive. If he says no, end it and move on. He may want you, in which case all is good.
Just remember, you don't need to buy the cow if you get the milk for free. Just as you don't need to buy the pig if all your after is a little bit of sausage.
You are not a whore but you do not want the reputation of a girl that sleeps around with guys because he will tell his friends and they will think that you would give it up to all of them. Trust me its not worth it I would just please yourself for now its much better and you get to know your body and what you like so when you meet a really good guy it will be so much better and you will be able to let him know what YOU like. It's much better with a guy that you really like and that you have been with for awhile. Good luck!
I understand that you like the guy and you want to impress him. By having sex, it toys with your emotions.
To you it seems like your connecting and he'll have feelings for you again, but to him its just a peice of ***.
He wont respect you if you continue doing this, and neither will any of his friends (or yours!). So as long as you stop what you're doing, you can escape from the mess you've caused.
OK your not a whore... your a confused teenager... you like having a friend with "benefits" but you feel bad about it because that friend is with someone right? well i think you are not a whore to answer your question...
also just something else... i would try to stop doing anything with that guy if i were you,,, your sill young and you need to wait for things like that... at least wait until college... or late high school...
No, you are not a whore. But, if he tells all his friends what you all did (like normal immature guys do...) he will make it seem that way to everyone he tells.... But now, he really doesn't have respect for you because you are just his booty call. He only comes to you for sex. Don't feel bad though, because he doesn't care about his girlfriend either because he's cheating on her with you. Just be safe and make sure you use protection.
if you're doing that, you should be going out. if he's doing that behind the other girl's back with you, then he would obviously do that to you, too. AND if he's still going out with her, then he is obviously choosing her over you. STOP! imagine yourself in that girls shoes...