What do men want? Sex straight away or to get to know the girl first. I am under the impression that if a man wants sex after the first date then this is all he wants. What do men really want? and if you really liked a girl and wanted a relationship with her when would you have sex with her? Also, if a girl did have sex after one date what would you think of her? Serious answers please x.
I think that you should have sex when you feel secure enough or content enough, don't forget that sex is a 2 way pleasure, it's not for you to give or for him to take, you both have to feel the same way about it. I met a lady on a Monday, we ended up having sex that day and got out of bed on Wednesday morning, we both agreed it was the greatest we had ever had. I have known other ladies for weeks before we have had sex, it wasn't all that good for either party. You both have to feel secure in what you are doing. Good luck. Remember, your not giving him sex, you are sharing sex with him, there is a massive difference.
It depends what attracts the man.
If there are straight away passion and sensuality in the air, the man will feel as it can be fine do go down to business. And he won't necessarily see the girl as easy one. For some people it can be good to be that intimate as it breaks the ice and open their personalities.
If the man is attracted by her personality, sex will be still knocking at the door, but it won't be seen that necessarily. In this case a kiss will be more meaningful.
In both cases if the woman holds on for the first 2 dates, it will only benefit both parties and the relationship itself.
Theres nothing wrong with sex,you see we have been brainwashed by other peoples values and beliefs and its made people think that sex is wrong.Its as if its some kind of made up social law.Its nature theres nothing wrong with sex,if i wanted to have sex with a girl then why in the hell is it a bad thing? It means i just want to mate with you like 2 tigers in kenya.
When we look at animals in the wild they dont date they just get humping if they are attracted to one another.They dont get to know each other the dont hav lunch and judge each other and insult each other.they just get it on.
If I really love the girl, I would get to know her first. Some guys want sex straight away. Different 'types' of men want different things so you can't say that all men want sex straight away from a girl. And yes, I would have sex with her if she's okay with it (not that I would ask straight away).
It's pretty fast after one date. It seems to me as that girl gave in easily to that guy.
Don't worry, it's a good thing if both of you enjoy it. :)
I'm not for sex right away, but if we dont have anything sexual in our relationship within the first month or two, then she is going too slow for me. But if we have chemistry on the first few dates then yeah i might have sex with her but if I want a relationship lasting more than 6 months I can wait for sex for at least that amount of time.
the thing is, the more serious the guy is about the girl..the longer he is willing to wait but some men will tell u straight..if u don't know that u want to sleep with him after a few weeks then its not worth staying because they "sexual" beings
my personal opinion is that if a man cant wait for me he is not worth my time, i value myself that much, im worth waiting for
else some couples have sex after the first date and made it..it depends on how much respect the guy has for u
it DEPENDS!
I'm never after the sex, but i've been on 1st dates where the chemistry was so strong it happened on that same night. Sometime, I prefer to keep her guessing for a week or 2, and YES, a guy who goes straight for the kill needs a cold shower and isn't interested in the girl that much. I take my time if I like her
Why are you thinking in terms of letting the guy dictate how quickly things proceed? The girl determines how far things will go; the guy will take it just as far as *you* let it.
Here's what *really* turns a guy on: when the girl radiates confidence and insists on being treated with respect. Value yourself.
Check this out:
adult freind finders