i don't want to have any relations with this girl. meaning i don't want to have sex with her or anything. its just dinner but my girl doesn't know about it. I don't know, is it?
I think the title of your question is confusing answerers. If you go on a date it means with someone whom you feel may developer into a romantic relationship.
Base on just the title of your question yes its cheating.
After reading what you wrote, NO. Seems like you want to chill out with friends, that's perfectly ok. I encourage my ex to do that too and i also go out with my friends. I don't like guys that are too clingy.
Why do you want to have dinner with her, is it a friendship or is it more than that? You don't have to have relations to be cheating, if it's something you wouldn't want your partner to know about it's probably cheating. If it's just a friendship, you'd be better off going the honest route because if your girlfriend finds out (and she probably will) it won't matter how innocent it was, it will look very suspicious that you kept it from her.
Well if you are a great guy like me no it is not. I have many many female friends and my fiance understands that. Sometimes I even take her friends out on a date to lunch or dinner as only a friend. It is the trust level and maturity level in this world that I worry about. People think because two oposites go out they are cheating and cant be trusted. IF you are HONESTLY going out on a date as a friend then you have nothing to worry about. Alot of times a date can lead to sexual advances thats when if you love your mate you should step up have the heart to say im happily in a relationship and dont want to ruin it. Or I couldnt live with my self for being a jerk. Also you may want to consider putting your self in the shoes of your louved one if they went out would it be cheating in your eyes and could you look past it. Not many people can thats why I am getting married to mine she isnt jealous and trusts me she already told me how she feels and laid all the do's and dont's down and she trusts thats I wont do that. Every one is different and knows what they can and cant handle. Maybe you just want to see if you can find someone to move on with and want an escuse. Then maybe not. Jeaulousy will ruin you in time just remember that.
It is cheating and I think you already know this. This isn't just a dinner date with a random young lady, you actually like this girl. She know that you are in a relationship and she's still going to dinner with you. This isn't the only time that you cheated on your girl either. What's hid in the dark always come out in the wash think about that for a minute.
well yeah i think you kinda need to tell your girlfriend about her and this date. But going on a date with another girl isn't cheating. Date is just a fancy word for going out and having fun with a member of the opposite sex. Nothing needs to happen. if it was a problem, then you would only be allowed to see her, youm ight aswell be locked up in your house so you can't look at anyone. That is not a problem but you need to tell your girl about it. And also, the girl your going on a date with needs to know you have gf. Its just a casual meeting between 2 people. Whats wrong with that?
That is shady.
If you and your girlfriend communicate in a healthy way and trust each other, then you should be able to talk to each other and establish what is appropriate to your relationship. If that is the case then going out with a girl that is a friend is probably acceptable, more so if it is a mutual friend. Why don't you invite your girlfriend too?
If you are saying noway right now, chances are you are doing something wrong.
Think about if the situation was turned on YOU. What if she went out with a guy behind your back and it was explained to you later as "purely all innocent, platonic" how would you feel? Is going on a date with another guy cheating?? Also you said "going on a date", so apparently you classify this as a DATE. So I would say yeah it's cheating.
If its not a date and you don't want any kind of relations with this girl than why are you not telling your girl about it. That is where you are wrong. If there is nothing to worry about than tell your girl you would like to go to dinner with a friend who just happens to be a girl but it is strictly platonic.
cheating, is not being open and honest with your girl. if you go on a date with this girl regardless whether you have sex or even kiss, the fact you have lied and been out with another woman is cheating, ask your self this: if you went past a restaurant and saw your girl sharing a meal having a nice bottle of wine, and she hadn't told you about it, what would you think.. hey she's cheating on me. , but she said , nay it was only a date, what would you say? come on. truth..
Uh...are you kidding? What planet do you live on? YES it's cheating. Why do you want to have dinner with this girl without your girlfriend knowing about it, anyway? MOST first dates involve dinner and do not involve sex. You're going on a date with someone else. Do YOU think that's cheating? And, I know this will be hard for you to believe, but some people actually don't have sex {gasp} with the people they date, anyway. Crazy, I know.
If you mean an actual date then yes it is cheating. If you mean just like a friend thing then run it by your girl as a friend thing. If she is cool and trusts you then she'll be okay with it.....If she doesn't well and you have a problem with it then you have to evaluate your relationship.........If you intend on hiding it from her then that is suspect. I had a guy want to go out for coffee and specifically told me we will just keep it quiet and not tell my girl....to me that was shady and I wouldn't go ...........Don't be shady.......
lmao that would be sneaking around behind Ur girlfriends back!
so yes it it! I would talk to her about it and make it clear that its just dinner with a friend...my boyfriend understands when i go to the movies with another guy cause i talk to him about it, i don't sneak around so there would be no reason to have any suspicions!
Well if it's totally platonic, then no, but if you're hiding it, then it looks suspicious. It depends, some couples have a don't ask/don't tell basis, others have a need-to-know basis, others have a mandatory disclosure basis. You need to figure out what basis your relationship is on.
you poor confused child!
It's not cheating, but it's not not cheating.
How would you feel if ur girl was goin on dinner-dates with other guys, didn't tell you/ lied to you and you found out?
It would suck! I can tell you that much, so don't do that to your girl, if it really is Platonic then why hide it from her? do you not trust each other? if that is the case then you should seriously review your relationship!
I am afraid so. All secrets of that nature is cheating in a relationship. Just tell her. Try to understand how she feels and how you can make her confidant that you want your girlfriend and only her, in all ways, romantically, intellectually, and emotionally.
Yes it is. If you can't tell her abou it, its obviously something wrong. But sometimes just a dinner or a date is the worse kind of cheating. I would be more upset finding out that there ws more to this cheating than just something physical.
100% of the answers here say it's cheating...so, I'm wondering where are you going to take her for dinner? Maybe Mexican food? Those giant fish-bowl margaritas have ALWAYS helped me make great decisions...oooops: looks like you don't need any more margaritas!
is going on a date with another girl cheating?
i don't want to have any relations with this girl. meaning i don't want to have sex with her or anything. its just dinner but my girl doesn't know about it. I don't know, is it?
are you kidding? Of course is cheating.. unless you girlfriend KNOWS that you are JUST going to hang out with a female friend. If you are honest to her, it should not be a problem. but GOING ON A DATE!!?
come on dude, just tell your girlfriend wht`s up.
It depends on the intention. If it's just friendly then I'd say no. But if you are looking at other options I'd say yes. Just if you are going to cheat on her, better break up, or address the issues you have before you hurt the girl or yourself.
Yes it is. Anything that is done with the opposite sex behind your girl's back that she doesn't know about could mean cheating in one way or another. Physical, mental, or emotional.
yeah it's cheating unless you tell your girlfriend and she's okay with it, then it's just going out with a friend. If you don't tell her than it's like a date with another woman and is considered lieing/cheating.
ya thats cheating, if you have a girl, and you want to keep her, then dont go to dinner with a different girl, see if the one ur with will go to dinner with you and just enjoy it with the girl u have.
if you have to hide it from your girlfriend, then yes, its cheating. if you can be upfront with your girl and just tell her you're going to dinner with a friend, and she's ok with it, then THATS not cheating.
That is pretty much the dictionary definition of cheating.
When in doubt if you are doing something you feel you need to hide from your gf chances are it is cheating.
How would you feel if your gf did the same thing and hid it from you? I think if you are wanting to go out in the company of another girl you should evaluate how much you want to be with your current gf.
If you don't want to tell your girl about it, then consider it cheating. Think of it this way, if she went out with a guy and didn't want to tell you about it, how would you feel?
uhm yes that is a date. Put yourself in your girlfriends shoes. Would you be ok with her going on a date with another guy even if she says she doesn't want to have sex with him? I didn't think so. Think it over man!
Well, duh, yes if it is a date. If you don't mean to be cheating on your girlfriend then don't call it a date and tell the other girl that it is not a date.
Still cheating u can't take any other girl out on a nice date unless its your gf!!!!!!!!!! Why would u even want to take another girl out on a date? Wow you must make your gf feel like she's not good enough for you. Shame Shame
yes....unless you tell your gf and she is okay with it (and u know she wont be) it is cheating. Why do something that would hurt her regardless of what you do with her? Would her going on a date hurt you?