I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We're ready to have sex. We've been dating for almost 2 months, but known each other for 2 in a half months. We've been comfortable around each other from the start and we spend every day together. We never fight and our relationship is already really strong, so we don't think that it could do anything but make it stronger. I want to make sure he is not using me though because his ex-girlfriend of a year & a half had sex in a matter of 3 months and he didn't even like her that much. But stayed with her that long because he obviously wanted sex. Also, after they did it... that's all they did. And both me and him are very sexual so I'm afraid of that. We both want to so bad though because we're completely in love and think that we are right together. So what's your take on it? Should we have sex or not? What are some of your experiences from having sex young and early in the relationship? Am I being used? Or does he really love me?
Thank you.
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I think that you too should just wait till you all are married because you wouldn't want to risk anything with the relationship between you too, because sometimes having sex actually brings relationships farther apart. But if you too really feel that you love each other than you all should go for it because sometimes having sex actually brings the relationship closer together.
i think you should wait because if he was in the same kind of position in his last relationship with a girl, you don't know if he will do it to you. two months is not very long. My friends has had a boyfriend for 11 months and they have not had sex yet. You never know until you have been dating way long than 2 months.
I think you should wait until you are 18. Yet when you turn 18 you should. If he really loves you he will stay with you. Just don't make it to where your entire relationship is wrapped around sex, if you wrap it around sex the guy may lose interest and think he doesn't really know you any more. Trust me from experience.
OK, so obviously, i can't really tell you whats right, but heres how i look at it: Maybe wait a bit, and then, ya know, do it. Or, just let it come nautrally. Like, wait for that right exact moment. But of course you want to be safe and protected, so i guess i didnt really help. sorry, i hope you figure thinggs out!
you'll do whats right! (:
I think that you should tell him your concerns.
Like tell him that you don't want to have sex with him because you love him, but you want to be sure that you will still do other stuff.
But really, if you're having this many doubts, I think you should wait a bit.
Just to be sure.
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i think you should wait a little. but you can still test the waters. i dont think you should have sex this early cause thats all that he will think about when hes with you. still makeout and have fun, but don't go all the way.
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If you have to ask, then wait. I never heard anyone say, "Oh, I wish I had sex when I was younger" or "I wish we hadn't waited." It's always the other way around. Remember, the dream is always better than the reality. Don't have sex. There is far more too a relationship than that.
Me and my bf had sex after one month of just conversant on the phone, but we discuss it and felt a connection, but we are in our thirties though. Express your concerns of not wanting to just be used for just sex b/c it does change the relationship.
please!!! please wait!! i did the same mistake never have sex to early cuz u might not really know the guy i was a vigina and i thought i really new the guy and i was wrong and everytime i think about him i want to throw up please wait...and saying I LOVE YOU this early is a way to get in ur pants
I think you are ok........i waiteddd about 3 months after i met my bf...we didnt even mention that stuff until that time and i was actually the one to say "its time to go to the next level"...soooooo.....its good...=)...and we are still together after about a year a half..so i dont think we rushed things...
Wait Wait Wait Wait!!! I had sex with my boyfriend (ex now) and well... as you can see it says ex... i guess my answer explains itself but my ex and i thought that we were ready and we had a SUPER strong relationship but it didnt last a week after we did it...