I've always been the type of person who couldn't make a decision right away.. I have to sit down and think aboutt the consequences and who would end up getting hurt, and sometimes I've scared myself out of making one because I'm to nice & softhearted and I care about other people way to much. Just recently (like 3 weeks ago) I started dating guy A. (Were both 16) He's a great boyfriend, he's met my parents and they love him, vice versa. We've already been through so much together. The only flaw about him is that all he seems to want is to do sexual activities, & says that were having sex later down the road. I'm a christian & and I don't believe in that. (Don't judge) I wanna wait. I've told him that but he stills wants to. A week ago guy B started going to my school (Guy A doesn't) and I've heard of him through people but never met him. He finally talked to me Tuesday and we clicked.. he gave me his number and we've gotten really close. We talk on the phone and he makes me laugh. I've kinda subconsciously started to like him. I know that's wrong because I have Guy A but Guy B is all around a better person, plus we share the same beliefs. He confessed he liked me 2 days ago, & since I liked him back I called Guy A (boyfriend) and confronted him of what's been bothering me. It ended with both of us crying and him apologizing over & over.. which meant a lot because most guys wouldn't do that, they have to much pride but he did..plus he said he'd never ask to do those things again. Now I'm stuck between Guy A & Guy B. They both like me, I like both of them. They're both perfect for me, well now..because of the talk that we had, but like I said earlier, I can't ever make good decisions for myself because I'm always worrying about the other people in the situation. I know that whoever I choose, the others gonna get their heartbroken..which is stressing me out because their both waiting for an answer that I have yet to give because I'm curled up in my bed crying. Help?
This is the reason why teenagers shouldn't exclusively date. You haven't had time to develop your own individuality. This is the time in your life when you should be focused on your education so you can get into a good college and find a rewarding career path. You should be developing life long skills through volunteering, playing sports, casual dating, developing FRIENDships, learning to dance, traveling, working part-time jobs, writing a novel... you're too busy for relationships!! Be YOU on your own! Love will find you eventually - when you're ready.
Ok...
Guy A is a guy that doesn't go to your school,he doesn't believe in waiting for ...,and your parents love him
Guy B is tecnahnically better,and has the same belief,and he goes to your school....
My opinion I rather have a guy go to school with me that way I can know if he's faithful or not,and a guy that has my belief is like 10xs better
If a guy doesn't have your belief chances r he might put "peer pressure "on you
No one likes too be put in that situation
Despite guy A crying if he truely likes or love you he would understand what ever decion you make
Guy b can be just a friend don't necessarily need to be your bf again if he really likes you he will wait for you