This has me wondering because I am a dating women and I wanted to know what kept the relationship in the sex department great while your soon-to-be hubby is gone away for a month and three weeks. What makes dating couples have great sex lives before getting married?
When you start a relationship it is always great the first few months or even years. as time progresses the hormone levels that produce lust fade away. It's not because you loose interest in the person its just the body can't sustain that type of chemical rush for long periods. That is why so many people stray from their partners, its to get that good old feeling of lust/passion back. Most folks don't know that great sex is a hormonal driven responce, discover the trick of keeping a long marriage interesting and new in the bedroom and learning to love your partner on a different emotional level is what a great marriage is all about.
You set some hot but reasonable standards to your everyday sex lives. Something not too stressful or hard to do but something that makes him excited to come home.